Wednesday, November 28, 2007

The Joy of Swimming: How to Master This Artform in 4 Simple Steps

The French poet Paul Valéry once remarked of swimming: “To plunge into water, to move one’s whole body, from head to toe, in its wild and graceful beauty; to twist about in its pure depths, this is for me a delight only comparable to love.”

Mais oui! Valéry paints an exquisite picture of swimming. Chances are you either totally get what he’s saying -- or you think he’s some quixotic poet prone to hyperbole.

The fact is when it comes to swimming, there are two camps: sinkers and swimmers. Swimmers see the sport a total mind-body-spirit release that soothes the spirit, relieves the pain and energizes the body. Sinkers fear and loathe swimming, because…well…they sink. To them, the sport is painful and boring and miserable.

Both groups are right. That’s because in exercise, as in life, we enjoy what we do well and we dislike what we do poorly. In hopes of moving you from sinker to swimmer (or swimmer to Valéry!), here are five tips and exercises to help you swim with more grace and gusto, so that you can reap the many rewards that swimming has to offer.

TIP: Get “organized.” Swimming is a technical sport much like golfing. You can be Brad Pitt fit, but if you don’t know the mechanics of the stroke, you’ll plod torturously through the water. Consider this: Water is roughly one thousand times denser than air. So, every move you make in the water has major implications on how you move through it. For example, if your hips drop, you’ll feel like you’re dragging your body through the water like an anchor. The best way to swim is to be as efficient as possible and slice through the water with torpedo-like precision.

TRY THIS: Get thee to your local pool and try this two-part drill: First, push off the wall underwater in the most wretchedly un-streamlined position you can: with your arms held straight out from your sides and your legs bent and apart. You’ll go about a foot. Next, push off the wall and hold your body in a perfectly streamlined position: Draw your hands together, one on top of the other, with your arms overhead as you look down at the bottom of the pool. Keep your legs together and your feet one on top of the other. If you do this right, you’ll glide effortlessly for ten feet or more. This exercise will help you start to understand how to “organize” your body in the water for maximum efficiency.

TIP: Work those hips. When I go to the local pool, in a blink, I know who swam as kids and who didn’t. Inexperienced swimmers think about their hands and arms and tear through the water. Experienced swimmers are all about their hips and look like professional ice skaters gliding effortlessly from one skate to the next. The natural tendency is to swim with your arms; that’s the dog paddle instinct. A powerful, efficient stroke, however, originates from your hips. Let’s return to the golf analogy: Imagine yourself swinging a golf club with complete freedom to rotate your hips. Now imagine yourself swinging a club while buried waist-deep in sand. This saps all of your power and leverage. In swimming, the magic is in your hips.

TRY THIS: Each time you extend your arm in swimming, roll your body and allow that arm to extend forward as much as possible. Then, rather than “ripping” through the water with your arm, engage your hips and hold” the water to generate more force and power. This takes some practice, but once you get the hang of it, it’s a thrilling feeling.

TIP: Break it down. There are four phases of the swim stroke. First, the “entry”: Your thumb and index finger enter the water slicing in at roughly a 45-degree angle. Your hand should enter a few inches in front of your head. Next, the “rotation”: roll into the stroke as if you are reaching for something just beyond your grasp. Allow your body to glide on its side. Now, the “catch.” With your elbow high to maintain your leverage and power, grab hold of the water and engage your hips to pull yourself through the water. Your hand should follow an “S” shape beneath your chest and past your hips to your thigh. (If you were to pull both arms together simultaneously, the resulting path would resemble Marilyn Monroe … or, um, Shakira.) After your hand finishes its pull, it’s time for the “recovery”: relax your muscles and release your hold on the water. Lift your elbow up and allow your hand to sweep freely as your hand prepares to enter the water again. Keeping your elbow higher than your hand during the recovery takes the pressure of your shoulders, which tire first in swimming.
TRY THIS: Drills are an effective way to learn each phase of the swim stroke. Swim down the pool and focus on just one phase of the stroke until you feel like you’ve got it. When you do, move on to the next phase and keep progressing until you master them all. Then, put them together. Remember: practice doesn’t make perfect. Perfect practice makes perfect. Take your time with these drills.

TIP: Breeeathe. We tend to hold our breaths when we swim; it’s instinctual. “I’m in water. I’m a mammal. I will hold my breath! HELP!” This tendency is why inexperienced swimmers get winded so quickly. Nothing will incite panic and desperation in a person more than running out of air. Learning to breathe fully and efficiently will put you at ease in the water.
TRY THIS: Focus on breathing out rather than breathing in. As you complete your arm pull, exhale forcefully and blow a steady stream of bubbles, then roll your head out of the water, and allow yourself to draw in a deep breath of fresh air. Remember: when you feel the need to breathe, it isn’t so much that your body needs more oxygen, it’s that it’s trying to drive out the CO2. Focus on the exhalation, and the inhalation will happen more naturally.

TIP: Enjoy it. I recently got my first dose of bona fide “taxi cab wisdom” on a return trip from Denver. I was greeted at the airport by an 80 year-old cab driver named Sherman (“call me ‘Sherm!’”). He was, in his words – and I am not making this up – a “professional cab diver and part-time etymologist.” He proceeded to fill the hour-long ride with a poignant and eloquent account of the origins of the verb “to enjoy.” He said that most of us expect joy to come to us and that this is what gets us into trouble. Enjoyment has become a passive experience, something that we seek. We expect things, people, Prada, experiences and such to give us joy. However, Sherm explained that ancient definitions of the word point to joy being something you put into an experience. In other words, it’s dynamic and active. It comes not from what’s outside, but from what’s inside. When you decide in advance to enjoy something -- and this is particularly true of exercise -- things tend to align in that direction. It’s like Henry Ford said: “Whether you believe you can, or you can’t, you are right.” The joy you experience, in swimming or in life, is entirely up to you.

TRY THIS: Before your next dip in the water, commit to enjoying yourself as fully as possible. Put joy into the experience. Focus on how the water feels against your body. Be a kid again and revel in the delight of weightlessness and freedom and the “wild and graceful beauty” of swimming. Do this, and you’ll begin to understand what Valéry meant when he said swimming is “a delight only comparable to love.”

Saturday, September 8, 2007

10 Great Reasons to Do a Triathlon

[The following is a modified excerpt from Eric Harr’s book: Triathlon Training in 4 Hours a Week: From Beginner to Finish Line in Just 6 Weeks.]

10 Great Reasons to Do a Triathlon

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.”

--Henry David Thoreau

People are motivated to “take the plunge” and do a triathlon for reasons that are as varied as those setting out on this mission. Some are obvious: “To lose weight fast!” Others are personal: “To boost my self-confidence and feel good about myself.” Others are spiritual: “To find more meaning in my exercise,” “To live more fully.” A few are social: “To brag to everyone in the office that I did a triathlon,” and some are inspirational, “To serve as a model for others and show what is truly possible in life.”

Although the reasons people do a triathlon differ, the benefits are universal. That’s what this column is about--it outlines the 10 benefits you can reap from training for and completing a triathlon. The bottom line is that this process is one of the most rewarding things you will ever do in your life, not just physically, but mentally, spiritually and socially as well. Ask anyone who has done a triathlon, and they will tell you the same thing. But for all its power to change your life, training for this triathlon isn’t going to consume your life. I’ll help you blend the workouts seamlessly into your busy schedule and requires just one day, a total of 24 hours--four hours a week for six weeks. The payoffs, however, are timeless: You will lose loads of weight, feel better than ever, and gain self-confidence that will last a lifetime.

Lofty promises, indeed. Can doing a triathlon really deliver? Follow the advice over the next six week and, yes, without a doubt it can. It has for thousands of other triathletes, and it will for you, too.

Physical Benefits

For you to consider training for and completing a triathlon, there have to be some serious, long-lasting benefits, right? Well, here they are--10 of them. Let’s start with the most observable payoffs: what will happen to your body.

1. You Will Lose Weight

The first thing you’ll probably notice as a Triathlete-in-Training is that your clothes will become too big. That’s because training for such a three-sport event will make you as fit and healthy as you have ever been in your life. When you engage in a well-balanced program of swimming, cycling and running--known as cross-training--you will burn an enormous amount of fat from every area of your body. Better yet, the weight will come off as a natural consequence of your passion-driven quest to complete a triathlon, rather than from a guilt-induced diet, a boring exercise plan or a bizarre fitness implement.

The principles and strategies in this program are built on passion, not deprivation. As you progress on this program, you will gain momentum: You’ll lose a couple of pounds in the first week and you’ll begin to feel stronger, which means you can do a little more--and lose a little more weight. The workouts will get easier, so you’ll be able to go even farther and lose more weight. Before you know it, you’ll be sailing!

Keep this in mind: This program isn’t based on some untested herbal weight-loss product. The principles at work are basic scientific ones that your body cannot disobey. Like the apple that must fall from the tree, your body must lose weight if you’re consistently burning more calories than you’re consuming. And nothing burns more calories than training for a triathlon.

Plus, you’ll likely find that when you’re training for such an athletic event, you’ll want to eat a healthy, well-balanced diet that supports your training. Overeating or indulging in lots of less-than-nutritious foods will leave you feeling dull and tired during your workouts, so you’ll quickly learn to eat what’s good for you--and that will accelerate your weight loss even more.

2. You Will Look and Feel Years Younger

When we neglect our bodies, imperceptibly over time we gradually accept lower standards of fitness, of health--and therefore of living. Worse, we don’t even realize how

bad we feel, until we wake up and get fit again. Training for a triathlon will reconnect you with your body and make you feel like you haven’t felt in years: young, energetic and powerful. And you’ll not only feel years younger but you’ll look better than ever, too. Triathletes are legendary for having some of the best physiques in the fitness world. That is because cross-training shapes the body in complementary ways: running develops long, lean muscles; cycling builds strength and tones your lower body; and swimming increases your flexibility and sculpts your upper body. Take a look at any triathlete over age 55 and you’ll see what I mean. These people have the look--and swagger--of 20- and 30-somethings.

3. You Will Have More Energy

Energy forms the basis of our existence, yet it seems that we all have less and less of it as our schedules have grown increasingly hectic. Unfortunately for some people, exercise can exacerbate this problem by draining their energy rather than replenishing it. In an effort to get results or lose weight fast, they may wind up overtraining and exhausting themselves.

Not so on this program.

The strategies I’ll set out over the next six weeks will show you how to exercise so that each workout refreshes your body and clears your mind, over time giving you more energy--so that you can perform better at work and at play. That, I guarantee.

You’re likely wondering “How can training for something as rigorous as a triathlon actually give me energy?”

This program is for real people--not for elite athletes. By following the principles over the next six week and exercising at the right pace for your fitness level, you’ll get fit without fatigue.

When I took a year off my triathlon-training program, my energy plummeted. I couldn’t believe it. It was as if someone pulled the plug on my life force. When I returned to consistent training, I felt fully alive again. You will, too.

4. You Will Get More Out of Your Workouts

Nobody likes to waste time. But that is precisely what most people do when they exercise – because they’re not doing it right! Over the ensuing weeks, I show you how to work out more efficiently by using a few simple strategies, such as monitoring your heart rate and breathing properly. Follow these and other techniques set forth in the training program, and you’ll get fast results from your workouts--without expending a huge amount of effort. It’s all about training smart, not hard.

5. You Will Injury-Proof Your Body

When you stick with one sport like running, for example, you continually stress the same parts of your body--and that can result in overuse injuries such as shinsplints, stress fractures, knee problems and tendinitis.

Training for a triathlon, however, incorporates three very different sports. This cross-training, as it is called, isn’t as hard on the body, because it distributes the stress more evenly to your bones and muscles and develops more balanced fitness. That means less pain, fewer injuries, and a stronger body. Or as Donna Carlysle, a mother of three from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, put it: “I like training for the triathlon because of the variety--it strengthens every muscle in my body, and it keeps me fresher as opposed to getting all the aches when I’m just running or biking or lifting weights all the time.”

6. You Will Improve Your Health

According to the American College of Sports Medicine, regular exercise can lower your blood pressure, prevent diabetes, heart disease and certain cancers, and reduce your risk of osteoporosis and depression--just to name a few. Follow my training program, and you’ll spend less time at doctors’ offices and more time enjoying your life!

By preventing disease and fortifying your body, regular exercise can help you live a longer, more productive life. Training for something as complete as a triathlon lays a foundation of fitness that will ensure that your later years are more pain-free and fun filled--so you’ll not only add years to your life but you’ll also add life to your years.

7. Your Mood Will Improve

Research shows that exercise improves your mood and lifts your spirits. And no wonder! When you put your body in motion, you can’t help but feel alive and invigorated. They don’t call it “runner’s high” for nothing. Plus, training for a triathlon gets you outdoors, and spending time in the beauty of nature is bound to boost your mood!

You’ll also grow more motivated to work out. Studies on exercise adherence show that many people quit their exercise routines because they become bored or burned out. This can happen when you do the same thing day in and day out. Incorporating three different sports into your weekly exercise plan helps you to avoid burnout. When you grow tired of swimming along that godforsaken black line in your local pool, you can go for a run, a hike or a bike ride around town or through the countryside. After all, each of these activities directly contributes to your triathlon success.

If the variety of training for a triathlon isn’t enough to keep you motivated--don’t worry. I’ll give you several other strategies for keeping your enthusiasm high throughout your training.

Not only that. This undertaking will help you redefine how you see and do exercise so that you can alter your long-term view of physical fitness. You will begin to see each triathlon training session for what it can be: a unique opportunity for personal growth, a celebration of life and a relaxing pause in your otherwise hectic and stressful life. You’ll learn to make exercise about letting go, stepping out into the world, getting sunshine on your face and having fun.

8. You Will Become the Best You That You Can Be

Are you tired of others telling you (or implying!) that you shouldn’t, you can’t or you won’t? Daily life rarely, if ever, provides us with the opportunity to be truly courageous, to show the world what we’re really made of--and to be recognized for our own greatness. Completing a triathlon will provide you, and those around you, with physical proof that you are capable of more than anyone realizes.

In this quest, pushing past what you thought was possible might be your barometer of success. For others, it might be setting a personal record. Regardless of your goals, you will glimpse your true potential by completing a triathlon.

Steve Prefontaine, one of the best competitors of all time, saw a race not so much as a competition against other people, but as a test to see how far the human heart can go.

That is what participating in a triathlon is all about.

9. You Will Motivate and Inspire Those around You

The courage and determination you show in pursuing a triathlon may inspire those around you to elevate their fitness and their lives--or at the very least, your quest will spark in others the possibility that they can do more. Bringing people to that realization is a wonderful gift. Knowing that you have set an example for someone to go after their dreams or to make a positive change in their life is a reward that simply cannot be matched. You’ll also be a hero to your kids!

10. You Will Set Other Positive Things in Motion--Things You Never Imagined

I know from personal experience that training for a triathlon event can totally transform your life. In 1994, when I decided to train for my first triathlon in the U.S. Virgin Islands, the extent of my exercise was walking to the local mango stand for lunch. It took courage to register for the race, but taking that one simple step set dozens of other unforeseen, positive steps into motion. I began eating better, I had more energy and I grew more sensitized to the joys of everyday life. I was a much more passionate and giving person because I felt so good about myself. That meant I could begin giving to others more. It may sound trite, but I began racing on behalf of animal welfare--something I likely would never have done if I hadn’t pursued the triathlon.

The moment you finish a triathlon, you will be astounded at the new realm of possibilities that open up to you. The only obstacles barring your way are your self-imposed excuses, fears and doubts.

Those are some powerful reasons! Now, empower yourself and go for it! Are you with me?

Friday, May 11, 2007

Home is Where Your Health Is

It's that time of year again. Dust the drapes, sweep under the rugs, wash the windows and flip the mattresses. (Truth be told, I’ve never flipped a mattress in my life. It's a good time to start, I suppose.)

In any event, when spring rolls around, it's time to clean house and get ready for warmer weather. In this column, I’ll give you some tips for improving the “health” your home.

In an ever more chaotic and stressful world, our homes as physical and mental sanctuaries become more important. Home is where we go to shake off the stress of life and to recharge our bodies and minds. Since we spend roughly two-thirds of our lives at home, the health of our homes largely determines the quality of our lives.

“Many people simply are not aware of how unhealthy their living environments might be,” says Debra Dadd-Redalia, author of five home health books including Home Safe Home (Putnam, 1997). “Individually, things such as toxic cleaners and reduced air circulation may have only a small impact, but collectively, they can have devastating effects on one’s long-term health,” she says.

Here are six simple steps to boost the “health” of your home:

STEP ONE: INCREASE AIR QUALITY AND CIRCULATION

I drive my wife crazy for many, many reasons. Here’s one: I am constantly flinging open all the windows in our home to bring in fresh air. It's a literal wind-tunnel at our house. Ok, perhaps I go a little overboard, but the quality of air inside your home is of paramount importance. Your body depends on a rich, clean supply of oxygen to function properly. But, in an effort to conserve energy, many homes are equipped with airtight windows, heavily insulated walls -- even gaskets that seal up doors and windows. While these advances are effective at keeping in heat and keeping out cold, they also trap contaminated, stale air inside your home. And that’s not healthy to breathe.

Open your windows to increase cross-ventilation. Also consider installing a high-efficiency particulate air (HEPA) filter in your home, which removes particles in the air by forcing it through screens with microscopic pores. These devices work well and aren't too expensive. An item like this is especially important if you live in a big city where fresh air harder to come by. But do some research first; some experts believe HEPA filters don't do everything manufacturers say that they do. Consumer Reports (www.consumerreports.org) is a great place to research air filters for your home.

STEP TWO: STORE STRONG CHEMICALS AND CLEANING SUPPLIES OUTSIDE

We are all subjected to varying levels of air pollution each day. It’s unavoidable. But did you know that air pollution in your home can be up to five times worse than air pollution outside? This is due to two things: the products that we use to clean our homes and the fact that the fumes those products release cannot easily escape. This is known as “off-gassing.” Our bodies are not equipped to neutralize the chemicals used in many household items, and that may suppress our immune systems, leading to higher incidences of illness and fatigue.

Shelley Cartwright a home-health expert for Dreamlife.com, identifies three common household products that have a deleterious effect on the health of our homes and makes suggestions for nontoxic replacements:

- Bleach and other chemical cleansers. Many cleansers contain nasty ingredients (despite their upbeat names and cute mascots). Try to substitute natural cleansers whenever possible. Or at the very least, go through your home and place all cleaning supplies in a box. Then exile that box to the garage or away from your primary living spaces.

- Cooking hardware. Gas stoves and appliances release fumes into the air. If you insist on using gas -- as many people do -- make sure that rooms containing gas appliances are well ventilated.

- Candles. I’m a bit of a candle guy: I love candlelit dinners with my wife, stuff like that. (Yea, Harr is a honeydripper!) But, many candles release soot and other pollutants into the air. Those made with metal wicks are especially toxic, since they release lead into the air as well. Paraffin itself (a petroleum-based ingredient used to make candles) is known to be a pollutant. If you're concerned about air quality, try natural paraffin-free candles instead.

STEP THREE: GIVE EXTRA ATTENTION TO YOUR SLEEPING ENVIRONMENT

You spend roughly one-third of your life in bed. During sleep, your body goes to work -- repairing and restoring your body like an Indy-500 car mechanic. That is why it’s particularly important to create a healthy and soothing bedroom. Simple changes such as new pillows, an air filter, a small water fountain or lots of plants can transform your bedroom into an oasis of relaxation and recovery.

STEP FOUR: GO GREEN

Health expert and best-selling author Dr. Andrew Weil says: “Houseplants, especially spider plants and Boston Ferns, can help reduce formaldehyde and other airborne pollutants in your home.” Remember, plants use carbon dioxide (CO2) as fuel and release oxygen -- which is the opposite of human metabolism (we breathe oxygen and release CO2). That’s why plants make perfect additions to your home. Pick up a couple Boston ferns and spider plants and spread them liberally throughout the house. You will breathe noticeably fresher air in a matter of days.

STEP FIVE: GET AN IONIZER

Do you ever notice how the air outside feels especially clean and fresh after a storm? One reason is that the air is filled with negative ions. Unfortunately, by sealing off our homes to the environment, the ion content inside can become unhealthful. A good deal of scientific research has shown that both the type and the quantity of ions in our air can have significant effects on our health. An ionizer will help to re-establish a healthy balance of ions in your home. There are countless models out there. Again, I advise you to hit Consumer Reports.

STEP SIX: LEAVE YOUR SHOES, AND YOUR WORRIES, AT THE DOOR

I learned this ritual while competing in a triathlon in Japan. Removing your shoes before entering the home may seem like a relatively small detail, but its benefits go deep. The Japanese place high importance on this, which is seen a show of reverence for their living spaces -- a way of keeping the chaos of the world outside of the peace of the home.

Next week: spring cleaning for your body!

Monday, April 16, 2007

Live the Life You Have Imagined: 4 Lessons

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.” -- Henry David Thoreau

SPORT CAN BE a metaphor for life.

The thinking goes like this: By taking part in athletics, we learn to commit to a worthy endeavor, we come to understand that fear can be channeled into positive motion and we learn to push past what we thought was possible. That forces us to recalibrate our self-image which sends our confidence skyward and our lives on higher arcs.

If indeed this is true, then the sport of triathlon may be the ultimate metaphor for life.

On April 1st, my wife Alexandra and I completed the Lavaman Triathlon on the big island of Hawaii. It was my first professional triathlon in a couple of years -- and it was Alex’s first triathlon in all of her years.

It was an extraordinary day for us both, mostly because we shared the experience. After finishing my event, I hopped on my bike and pedaled the last portion of the 25-mile ride with her, and then we ran every step of the 10k run together.

As is often the case with triathlon, many life lessons were revealed, and reconfirmed. Here are four that we experienced:

LESSON #1: Most things are not as difficult as they seem.

We tend to build up difficult tasks in our mind. At a point, the mental barriers can become more formidable than the physical ones. Once we finish the task, we often think to ourselves: “That wasn’t so tough! I made too big a deal of that!"

So went the thinking for Alexandra and her triathlon. I was her coach for the six weeks leading up to the event, and while she was well incredibly well prepared (I was her coach…come on!), her doubts grew as race day neared. Understandable. The triathlon can be a daunting challenge. But, the doubts started to erode her confidence forged from weeks of training, and she began to wonder if she should do the event at all. Fortunately, a glass of wine and some serious cajoling and wheedling on my part convinced her that she should.

And sure enough, with the aquamarine waters of Anaehoomalu Bay as a backdrop, Alex blazed across the finish line of the Lavaman Triathlon, completely besotted. On her face: a dazzling smile and a torrent of tears. The first thing she said was: “That was amazing! It wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be! When can we do this again?”

When we were kids, we thought anything was possible. We didn’t give much thought to our own limitations. We’d see a tree, we’d climb it -- and we’d get stuck in it! The world was our oyster. Yet as we age, we tend to approach new challenges with more trepidation than optimism. We unconsciously list the reasons why we shouldn’t pursue something, rather than why we should. We become caution experts. That can chip away at our spirit, our sense of adventure, and our ability to have fun and feel youthful.

Sometimes, we need to get our mind out of the way and just go.

LESSON #2: We are stronger than we know.

Human beings have a phenomenal capacity for heroism. Ordinary people achieve extraordinary feats every day. We all have this power in us, but the mundane, rote nature of daily life can “tamp down” that heroic fire in each of us. Participating in athletics can fan the flames and draw out our inner heroes.

Nowhere is this more evident than at the finish line of a triathlon.

At some point during the triathlon event, most people seriously question whether or not they can finish. But in the end, almost all of them do. Hundreds of competitors at the Lavaman Triathlon were first-timers, like Alex, and when they finished the event, each one of them felt heroic in the truest sense of that word. And, they were.

To me, being heoric comes down to one simple thing: hanging in there. Emerson said: “A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is braver five minutes longer.”

So, in sport or in life when you feel like you can’t take another step, take another step. Then, take another one. The fact is: regardless of how you feel at any given moment, you are much stronger than you know.

LESSON #3: We can do (almost) anything with the help of others.

One aspect of triathlon that never ceases to amaze and inspire me is the volunteers. These are regular folks who give up their Sundays to pour everything they can into helping total strangers complete something of great importance to them.

In a triathlon, the volunteers arrive early and stay late. Many of them stand in the hot sun, at aid stations, handing energy drinks and food to people as they hurry past. The volunteers cheer their hearts out all day long: “Go! You can do it! You look great! You’re amazing!” And, they mean every word of it.

No matter how I’m feeling in a triathlon, when I run past a cheering group of volunteers, a surge of energy and emotion rushes through me like electricity. I think it has to do with the fact that when others genuinely believe in you, you feel like you can do anything.

America is the land of “rugged individualism”; this is the notion that all individuals, or nearly all individuals, can succeed on their own. But the fact is when we work together, when we ask for help, when we cheer others on -- and mean it -- we can accomplish great feats. We simply need to be willing to give, and accept, the help from others.

LESSON #4: Life is a series of notable moments. Make the most of each one.

You’ve likely heard this countless times: “Seize the day. Make the most of every moment.” Wonderful advice, but the fact is: it’s not always possible. In life, most moments cannot be “seized” or “made the most of.” When I’m sitting in traffic and I’m cranky and dehydrated and hypoglycemic, there’s no way I’m going to “seize the moment.”

It’s when you happen upon “notable moments” (special time with your kids, a tender kiss, an athletic event, a success at work) that you must make the very most of it.

It’s also important to will those “notable moments” into your life. As Apollo Creed said to Rocky Balboa in the film Rocky II: “There is no tomorrow. There is no tomorrow!” The corniness of that scene and my suspect taste in movies notwithstanding, there really is no tomorrow. What we do, who we are and what we have is right here, right now. By falling into the habit of putting off until tomorrow those things we should do today, we run the risk of never getting to them.

If you’ve always wanted to climb a mountain with your kids, do it. If you want to run a marathon, do it. It you want to marry the woman or man you love, do it. If you want to lose 50 pounds, DO IT! Don’t want until the first of the month, or your birthday or the “perfect moment” or the summer solstice or harmonic convergence. Start planning it, and willing it, today.

Strive for your loftiest goals, because the fact is: most things are not as difficult as they seem, we are stronger than we know, we can do almost anything with the help of others and life is a series of notable moments. Make the most of each one -- and create as many as you can.

Sunday, April 1, 2007

Fitness Mistakes That MOTIVATE

“What is defeat? Nothing but education; nothing but the first step to something better.” —Richard Sheridan, Playwright (1751-1816)

Obstacles, setbacks and errors are part of any diet and exercise program. Here’s how to use them to your advantage—even to inspire you to greater heights.

YOU NEEDN'T BE a conspiracy theorist to wonder if something -– or someone –- is secretly plotting to keep you from eating right and exercising each time an obstacle arises. Who’s in on it? Your demanding boss, inclement weather, the Stairmaster hog, nagging back pain, Ben and Jerry. Hurdles are part of the natural order in fitness. It’s not if you experience them in your exercise program, it’s what you do with them that matters. People who learn to use obstacles and setbacks to their advantage can enjoy greater success in fitness, and in life. “Making mistakes is a good thing,” says Todd Weitzenberg, M.D., a sports psychologist and sports medicine specialist at Kaiser Permanente in Santa Rosa, California. “You learn more because mistakes force more introspection than successes do. Mistakes can teach you how to improve your fitness program and your life.” As Friedrich Nietzsche said: “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” Use these expert strategies for not only moving beyond the obstacles, but also emerging stronger, more confident and in better shape because of them.

TIP
: Identify your roadblocks
Ignoring the factors derailing your fitness is as detrimental as ignoring what’s causing your financial woes or anything else in life; matters only get worse. So identify what you’re doing or experiencing that’s contributing to the problem, then use that information to change your ways, fortify your resolve and improve yourself.

Try this Think back to past problematic fitness scenarios and write down 3-5 ways to resolve each one. For example, if knee pain kept you from exercising, your list may read: 1. Schedule appointment with knee specialist, 2. Get proper running shoes for my biomechanics, 3. Run on softer surfaces. If your diet always gets sidetracked in the evenings, your list may read: 1. Make heartier, healthier dinners, 2. Plan after-meal activities, 3. Go to bed earlier.


TIP: Change your mindset

By understanding the reasons behind your poor fitness and diet decisions, you can identify negative patterns and make positive future choices. “Understanding how our thought processes lead us to make certain decisions is integral to self-improvement,” says Dr. Weitzenberg.

Try this The next time you opt for a candy bar over a tuna salad or a rerun of “Friends” over a workout, pinpoint and write down what you were thinking at the time. For example: if you felt too tired to work out, write that down and then write down how to re-think that attitude (ie. “Working out will give me more energy, not less.”)


TIP: Trust your instincts

Sometimes missing a workout or indulging in a few extra fats is just what your body needs. Pay attention to how you’re functioning, and if you flat-out don’t have the energy to work out, give it a rest. Likewise, if you’re getting hunger pangs, eat! “The human body goes through distinct physiological changes over the course of each month, often referred to as circatrigintan rhythms,” says Murray Mittleman, M.D. a board member of The American Association of Medical Chronobiology and Chronotherapeutics. “These physical highs and lows are perfectly natural. So listen to your body and modify your fitness program accordingly day to day,” he says.
Try this When you’re experiencing a low in your exercise program, work with your body, not against it. During your time off, write down how a day of rest is helping to rejuvenate your body. When you fuel yourself with foods that your body is craving, make a mental note of how they’re sating your appetite, or how you felt afterwards—and use the power stored in those foods to supercharge workouts the following day.


TIP: Defy your drawbacks

In fitness, an “all or nothing” mentality can lead to frustration and destroy your motivation altogether. “If being a slow runner is preventing you from running, you’re being a self-defeating pessimist,” says Dr. Weitzenberg. “Turn it around: use that weakness as fuel. Run one mile around a track and record your time. Then dedicate yourself to running it faster every week, even if just by five seconds. You’ll be amazed at how focused and motivated that makes you.”

Try this Write down things that keep you from exercising or eating smart followed by clear, direct challenges to yourself. For example, “Weakness: I am a slow runner. Challenge: I will run three times a week until I can run one mile under 10 minutes. I will prevail!” or “Weakness: I give into late-night chocolate cravings too easily. Challenge: I will not buy chocolate for 30 days.” Post that on your bathroom mirror.


Having the courage to transform your fitness and diet weaknesses into strengths—and following through on that commitment—is a powerful skill that can also net big dividends in your life.

Friday, March 23, 2007

Wakaya: Travel Review

Buddhists call it Nirvana. Greeks call it Elysium. I call it Wakaya.

As the sun rose to warm the day, I rose to warm my muscles.

Setting out on a dashing run, I soon found myself striding across some of the most eye-popping terrain I had ever seen. I have trained in many beautiful locales, but this place was without equal.

My legs carried me over hill and dale past ancient banyan trees and groups of (thankfully docile) feral horses -- as my lungs drew in the fresh, salty ocean air sweetened with frangipani and flower blossoms.

In my post-run reverie, I took to my 1500 square-foot cottage-suite (or “bure”) and lingered long in its outdoor volcanic-rock shower. I then adjourned to a beach-front gazebo and sipped down green tea, nabbed at papaya sorbet and gazed out at an impossibly azure and soothing sea.

You might call this halcyon moment post-run euphoria. I call it a sublime state of grace brought on by a place of unparalleled splendor.

Where in the world was I, you ask? At the Wakaya Club, a 2200-acre serrated sliver of paradise nestled among the 333 bejeweled Fijian islands.

Wakaya is widely-hailed as the paradigm of the luxury resort experience. My otherwise understated travel agent said I ought to brace myself for “an experience beyond your wildest dreams.”

I arrived at Wakaya by way of a 35-minute plane ride -- or more accurately, a luxuriant custom flying limousine -- from Nadi airport. Being the only person aboard, my pilot (nice to say) took aim at what looked like the island from the film Jurassic Park. As we approached the airstrip, I thought: “Could a place in today’s disarrayed world possibly be so pristine?"

From the moment I touched down on Wakaya, my heart was stirred (not shaken), and I felt a palpable surge of energy come right up through my feet. It was vaguely magnetic. I later learned this was not imagined. The geomagnetic polarity at Wakaya is unlike anywhere in the world.

A rumbling 4x4 was on hand to transport me across the island to the resort. There are no paved roads on Wakaya; this place is so undisturbed, I was half-expecting a gentle brontosaurus to peek through the thick foliage and offer a prehistoric welcome.

After a 15-minute drive, we arrived at the Wakaya Club. Within seconds, I was gracefully greeted by a radiant Fijian woman and subsequently shuttled to my room by another. I thought to myself: “Could that possibly have been check-in?"

As I approached my bure, which is an authentic Fijian thatched roof cottage, I spied a smooth, round rock bearing the name: “Eric.” That charming welcome brought a smile to my face.

Once inside, I was agape: woven bamboo wall covering, soaring ceilings, native timber flooring, a gossamer-soft bed, carefully-selected objects d'art, a deep soaking tub and the pièce de résistance: a 10 foot-high outdoor shower assembled with lava rocks.

Every inch of Wakaya speaks to a tireless dedication to quality, comfort and elegance: from the Tibetan rugs that grace the bures and soothe every toe on your feet to the ambrosial, island-grown organic produce that nourishes every cell in your body.

And nourishing your body comes easily at Wakaya. While there, I dined on chilled cucumber and crab soup, grilled walu with sushi rice, maple-glazed Wakaya venison with kumala mash and sautéed local spinach and of course the Wakaya trifle with crème anglaise. The caliber of food is so high at Wakaya that if you eat with any degree of mindfulness you will gain nary an ounce.

My stay at Wakaya was a relief -- and a release. I lead a healthy life, but not until you come to Wakaya do you realize how much you need it. In the first 24 hours on the island, the ringing in my ears stopped. After 48 hours, the tight knots in my shoulders unraveled. And, within three days, every worry and concern had all but vanished from my (well-stocked) psychological file cabinet.

In the past decade, our noisy world has been given a violet shove into deafening. Each day, traffic worsens, pollution rises and the news media assaults our senses -- and insults our sensibilities -- with a blitzkrieg of negative images. Human beings are resilient and, without thought, we adapt to these stresses. But, in walling ourselves off from the world, we grow disconnected.

That is manifested in the unprecedented health catastrophe in America. Some experts believe we are reaching a moment of unbearable physical crisis, that we are dissociating from our human nature.

That is why it is more important than ever to seek out peaceful places of refuge; they serve as spiritual ballast in a turbulent world.

Sadly however, as the world modernizes, bona fide places of refuge become rarer. Most travel destinations have grown so commercialized they resemble the very world we seek to leave behind. That may explain why we can arrive home from a vacation as bleary and bedraggled as when we left.

That is what makes Wakaya so special -- and so important.

The two people we have to thank for this precious, unfading gift to the world is Canadian-born entrepreneur David Gilmour and his wife, Jillian, who is largely responsible for the utterly tasteful elegance woven into every crevice of Wakaya.

“The more the world changes, the more we gravitate to places that don’t,” says Mr. Gilmour.

In 1973, Gilmour bought a wild Wakaya which had then been uninhabited for 140 years. Since the purchase, he has been tireless and uncompromising in preserving its natural grandeur.

“I believe Wakaya to be the last bastion of ecological sanity in the world,” he says, “and I have made it a personal mission to make certain it remains that way.”

And, it has. In Wakaya, the Gilmours have created a place of unqualified beauty that permeates your soul and anchors you to the best part of yourself.

Early on, the Gilmours took steps to preserve the entire reef system. Step off the beach at Wakaya and you are immersed in an explosion of color and sea-life.

Wakaya is so untouched and protected from the ravages of traditional tourism that in the midst of a mountain hike, my guide stopped and reached into the Earth. In his thick hand were dozens of small, white seashells. He explained that the warriors who resided there 150 years ago delighted in the meat contained in these tiny shells. After harvesting this seafood, they would tote it up to their mountainside homes and cook it in giant pots. Then, they would dine on these delicacies and flick the casings into a big pile. These shells sat so intact inches beneath surface that it looked like the feast had taken place just days ago.

After the hike, it was back to my bure, then to another sumptuous meal and over to my beach-front hammock for 80 winks.

As so goes life at Wakaya: effortless -- almost ethereal. There was no resistance, nothing to pierce my idyllic reverie as I floated blithely from one setting to the next: morning run, outdoor shower, breakfast, hike, outdoor shower, “10-handed massage,” (yes, it is what it sounds like; otherworldly), lunch, snorkel, nap, tennis and…another outdoor shower. You can do it all at Wakaya because at Wakaya, hours draw on for days.

And more days, I wish I had -- for I would have partaken of deep salt-water soaks in the body temperature water shiatsu/plunge pool at the new jaw-dropping Breeze spa. I would have ambled over the 9-hole golf course that cuts a swath through a 19th century copra plantation. I would have donned Wakaya’s professional scuba gear and sought out the sea turtles, trigger fish and manta rays trolling any one of the dozen prime dive sites just minutes from the resort.

Who knows, I may have even tried my hand at professional croquet.

For an exclusive paradise resort that welcomes a mere 12 couples at a time, Wakaya’s list of leisure activities outstrips most resorts many times its size.

As I meandered past one of the two boule courts on the island, my mind was whisked away to Villefranche-sur-Mer, in the South of France, when I played my first round of boule with a 91 year-old French poet named Cyrille.

Wakaya does that to you: while it grounds you in the magic of the moment, it also summons up your sweetest memories.

That enchanted atmosphere is orchestrated by the Fijian staff who are at the summit of their art. The staff-to-guest ratio is 12 to 1. And while your every conceivable need is met, it doesn’t feel one bit overbearing. Guest privacy there is regarded as “sacred.”

Perhaps that explains why Wakaya is where “those who have it all come to get away from it all.” When you visit Wakaya, and you must, you will likely find yourself in the company of luminaries from every walk of life. These people travel great distances to Wakaya, I believe, because it gives them what they need most: peace, privacy and beauty in an unchanging ambience of authenticity.

In the dying light of a warm Wakaya evening, I met a special friend of the Gilmours who upon learning I spoke French said to me: “Quand je pars ici, une partie de moi meurt.” It means: “When I leave this place, a part of me dies.” As night fell, I sat in my hammock and lost myself in the moonlit sea, allowing the whole experience at Wakaya to sink deep into my bones. I knew I’d be home soon.

The next morning, with bags packed, I stood listening to the entire Wakaya staff sing their rapturous farewell song to me. It was a strange juxtaposition: On one hand, I had never felt more alive; on the other, a part of me was dying. That man was right.

Wakaya is a haven to which I will never fail to return each year because I know it will never change. In a world that feels increasingly insane, I find warm comfort knowing Wakaya is out there, just as I remember it, and that it will forever remain my oasis of sanity.

Thursday, March 1, 2007

5 Ways to Help Our Children Lead Healthier Lives

Our kids are in trouble.

The epidemic of childhood obesity is fast creating a national health crisis. According to U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, roughly 15% of American children, or nearly 8 million youngsters, are overweight; that has more than doubled since the early 1970’s.

To say nothing of the mental torment it inflicts on kids, being overweight can lead to a host of serious health problems from diabetes and sleep apnea to joint problems and gallbladder disease. Here’s something even more chilling: some experts content that this might be the first generation of kids to have a shorter life expectancy than their parents.

We hear statistics like this on such a regular basis that we run the risk of being desensitized to them. It’s time to pull back and look at this issue with fresh eyes. After all, these are our kids we’re talking about.

First, it may be helpful to understand the mechanisms behind the rising rates of childhood obesity so that we can make more informed choices in helping our own kids.

A study in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that the increase in overweight children is linked to growing social prosperity, which had led to children eating more and exercising less. Kids are immersed in playing increasingly compelling video games on increasingly wider-screen TV’s -- while munching on increasingly fatter foods.

It’s easier than you may think to help your kids live healthier lives. Here are five strategies to do just that:

Set a Better Example

Mahatma Ghandi once said: "You must be the change you wish to see in the world.”

While 15% of kids are overweight, that number pales in comparison to adults: a whopping 60% of whom are overweight or obese. A recent survey by the American Dietetic Association Foundation found that, more than anyone else, parents have the most potential to influence their children’s behavior, including their eating habits. Parents were chosen by kids as their most important role model, outshining “rock stars” and “celebrities.”

This survey confirms what we’ve long known: Kids watch what their parents do and they follow much of that behavior. That certainly includes eating and exercise. Research has found strong links between the food mothers eat and the choices made by their children.

We cannot slunk into the couch and cavalierly command our kids to “go play, go get some exercise.” Part of helping your child commit to better fitness is becoming a positive role model by making your own exercise a priority and by playing with your child more often.

Exercising with your children is a great way to spend quality time with them, improve their health and make your own exercise more rewarding. Staying fit can improve your child's self-esteem and decrease their risk of developing serious illnesses, such as heart disease or Type II diabetes.

You can also set a good example by eating better. Improving your diet needn’t be unpleasant or unpalatable either. Health food isn’t what it used be. There are more sumptuous options out there than ever before; it’s just a matter of taking the time to find them.

Limit Tube Time

The average American child gets less than one hour of exercise per week, but watches more than 30 hours of television. Thirty hours. The mind verily boggles! A University of Buffalo study found that a child’s risk of obesity doubles for every hour of TV he or she watches each week; for many kids, that’s a whole lot of doubling going on. You may consider striking a deal with your children: for every two hours of TV viewing, they must engage in one hour of fun physical activity. The operative word there is “fun.”

Make it Fun (Really Fun)

According to the National Association for Sport and Physical Education, 75% of high school students do not attend physical education classes. Much of that has to do with the fact that it isn’t fun. If it were, more kids would attend. Parents, coaches and teachers need to band together and commit to keeping sports fun and challenging for kids. If kids who are overweight are having fun, weight loss comes as a natural consequence of the activity, rather than the focus. Make having fun the singular focus of your child’s relationship with physical activity.

“Kids who enjoy sports and exercise tend to stay active throughout their lives. And staying fit can help improve your child's self-esteem and decrease the risk of serious illnesses (such as heart disease and stroke) later in life,” says Steven Dowshen, MD, Chief Medical Editor for KidsHealth.com.

Expose kids to new activities that they truly enjoy – and that they excel in. I was an overweight, gangly mouth-breather in grade school. I hated sports. That is, until I played my first game of soccer. My parents took the time to help me discover my bliss, and once I did I couldn’t be stopped! I was even known to sleep with my soccer ball.

Never before have there been more sports available to kids: ballet, lacrosse, water polo, soccer, golf, tennis. Keep trying new activities until you find the one that clicks with your kid.

Strike a Junk Food Deal

Each year, the average American child partakes of 28 pounds of French fries and consumes 868 cans of soda a year. (Yes, you read that right). You may want to consider this approach: no junk food during the week, but on weekends, allow your kids to slack off and have the bad stuff. That way, they’re consuming less overall junk food, and you haven’t made it as taboo, which only increases their desire to have it. Another related strategy to help kids eat better is not to deny the “bad foods,” but merely to insist that they have the “good stuff” first. The idea is that after eating the good, they will have less room for the bad. That’s not a bad suggestion for parents, either!

Spend More Time Eating Together

In our culture, we tend to view food as a tool rather than as nourishment. We often eat on the run and give little or no thought to what we’re putting into our bodies, or how we’re doing that. We need to give more reverence to food -- and to mealtimes. Establish daily meal and snack times, and eat together as frequently as possible. Some research has shown that kids who sit down to eat with their families develop healthier dietary habits. This is a tip that can benefit parents as well.

Parents, it’s a now-or-never proposition to keep our children healthy and fit; their lives depend on it. Exercising with your children is a great way to spend quality time with them, improve their health and make your own exercise more rewarding. Staying fit can improve your child's self-esteem and decrease their risk of developing serious illnesses, such as heart disease or Type II diabetes.

We cannot blame this problem on video games, TV commercials, Tony the Tiger -- or the “resistance” put up by our children. That merely disempowers us. The solution to the problem of childhood obesity in this country – resulting from too little exercise and poor nutrition -- rests squarely on the shoulders of parents.

Let’s all take the concerted and consistent action necessary to improve the health and fitness of our children. After all, they are our most precious asset.

Sunday, February 25, 2007

How to Reboot Your Fitness Program

If you feel like you've got the exercise motivation of a cheese log, then this column is for you.


Here's how to get into tip-top shape for summer: Train for a 5k run.

Training for a running event is a surefire way to expand your motivation -- and shrink your waistline! There is arguably no better way to shed fat from every inch of your bod than running on a regular basis.

If you've never run an event before, good on you: you stand to gain the most here. And, no worries...I'm not talking about running this event tomorrow morning. This event will be six to eight weeks from now, giving you plenty of time. 

According to USA Track & Field, more than 43 million people have trained for, and completed, at least one organized athletic run in their lives -- and they have reaped the rich rewards, such as improved cardiovascular fitness, weight loss, elevated energy levels and strengthened immunity. So, why not you?

Here's how to run your first, or your best, 5K run in three simple steps.

1. Choose your event

Choosing the right event at the right time is the first step. Depending on your current fitness level, give yourself between four and eight weeks to prepare. There are lots of good events across America starting in April. Find one and register for it now, today. Plunking down the cash ties you psychologically and financially to the event. Do it on behalf of a cause important to you and you double your motivation -- and the benefits. Better your body, better the world. Log on to www.active.com to find the right event for you.

2. Choose your gear

This is the fun part. An important part of running is getting the right gear (most importantly: shoes) and looking and feeling good out there. Truth be told, you will run better, longer and more often if you look good. So, find a few outfits that make you feel confident. It does make a difference. On the shoes, make sure a running geek watches you run up and down the block to determine your biomechanics (pronator, supinator, cheese log, etc.). This is the single most important aspect to a new running program: the right shoes. And do get two pairs.

The reason for this is that there a material in most running shoes called EVA or ethylene vinyl acetate, which absorbs the impact between the ground and your body. When you run, the EVA tends to compact and requires about 24 hours to regain its shape. So rotating your shoes every other run maintains maximum protection against pain and injury.

3. Choose to kick a little ass

You want to finish this event with grace and dignity -- and not with fast-running rivulets of drool streaming from the corners of your mouth. The following sample exercise plan will help you complete a 5K run with strength and confidence -- as you high-five your adoring fans at the finish! (Important: Before you begin any new exercise program, please consult your doc. And stay alert to unusual symptoms such as chest pain, shortness of breath or frequent muscle cramps.)

Monday: Off

Nice to start off the week with a rest day. This is key. Taking time completely away from exercise, particularly running, allows your body to grow stronger from your workouts. It is during times of rest that you gain fitness and strength; they are just as important as your training days. Sundays are your hardest runs, so Mondays are meant to soak up the benefits of those.

Tuesday: 45-minute run with "race pace" efforts.

You may have a goal time, or a target pace, in mind for your 5K. Let's say you want to finish in under 30 minutes. That's roughly 10min/mile pace. You must teach your body to run at that pace. Throughout this run, include two "intervals" of two to three minutes in duration at your goal race pace or effort. Run easily the remainder of the time.

Wednesday: Rest

Thursday: Nice, chill run. Go on feel. If, after the first five minutes, you're feelin' springy, then let 'er roll for 30-40 minutes. Just stay nice and easy. Key workout tomorrow...

Friday: 40-minute run in the hills, if possible.

R
unning uphill builds awesome strength and aerobic power. Be sure to warm up and cool down well and keep your pace nice and steady on this run. The hills add plenty of stress; you needn't run too hard.

Saturday: Rest.

Sunday: 60 to 90-minute run/walk at a nice, steady effort.

This is the most important workout of the week; it burns lots of fat and essentially serves as your "insurance policy." In other words, by teaching your body to run longer than your projected race time, you are much more likely to finish strong on event day.

So there you have it. Not so terrible, right? Register for your event, get your gear, get on the program -- and get moving.

Every step you take will be a step toward living your best life.